I am thinking about getting rid of "Genius". I want to get rid of him because the relationship is not "mutually beneficial". He's enjoying me but I'm not enjoying him. He emailed me last night saying how he was thinking about me and enjoyed... but I didnt respond. I'm kind of tired of not benefiting from this "arrangement". He's self employed but with the economy his clients are filing bankruptcy so funds are tight for him. No problem, sh** happens. Even though I'm not really looking for a SD/SB relationship with him I'd rather for him to satisfy me in bed.
We haven't have sex yet but the foreplay/fooling around is not good. I would go in detail but dont want to remind myself of the details. All in all, I will talk to him eventually but this time I'm going to be firm and speak my mind and yet be considerate of his feelings. I enjoy his company but I can't be the one making him "explode" all the time and after you leave I have to pull out Mr. Vibey. That sucks.
That happens all the time to me with guys. Either I finish it while he's in the bathroom or I'll have to go in my drawer and grab my "friend". Two were actually good and one did an excellent job at it. But that's besides the point. Good luck telling him what you think.
ReplyDeleteThanks! I dont feel alone on this matter lol. Next time I see him I definitely will. He's a good guy and want to keep him around.
ReplyDeleteSex (Physical Support), $$$ (Fianncial Support), or Friendship (Emotional & Mental Support)...He has to be giving you at least one of these or he's a "leave it"
ReplyDeleteHugs ♥