Fuck 90 days...

...unless you're seeking a serious relationship. But right now I'm not. I'm referring to Steve Harvey's book "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man". Now I haven't read his book, yet, but I remember when he was on Oprah talking about giving a man 90 days until you have sex with him. Ummm, no Mr. Harvey...not I.

If I meet a guy and we click and he's attractive, and everything is all good and dandy then you best believe we are going to wrestle in the sheets. I'm not saying to have a one-night stand either but whatever tickles your fancy. Americans have too many rules. Just follow your heart, gut, and mind and do what you want. As long as everyone is an adult, not drugged and use protection. Its all good. ;-)

Interesting observation

Since I've been dating, I've noticed that most white men refer to their penis as "cock" and black men refer to theirs as "dick".  Just an observation lol

Stop looking helps

I'm having a good time with just dating. I'm not looking as much right now. Dates just happens. I realize that when I look for a date or SD it doesnt happen. So to avoid being frustrated I continue to go to work, work out and have fun with my friends.

The good news is...the dry spell is OVER."Yay!". This guy is just a new guy friend I met. Not looking for anything else from him besides sex and conversation. But I am seeing a couple of other guys. I'm just enjoying the ride :-)

So far so good

I've been dating a lot. There are moments where the dating scene is a bit slow but right now its going well. I have a date tonight actually. I'm looking forward to it. Unfortunately, the date wont be long because my girlfriends and I have a prior engagement. But I'm ready for tonight :-)

Eh...!

The SA party was ok. I may not go to the next one. As I predicted I didnt talk to any guys. I didn't want to approach any because I don't like rejection and I feel if a guy wants you, he would approach you. I had a decent time nonetheless. I met a few girls and we spent the night chatting, dancing, and drinking. So the night wasnt totally a bust. The should've picked a better venue because Hudson Terrace was "ok". And they should have offered at least a complimentary drink. It's just ridiculous.

I'm going to the SA party...again.

I woke up to an email on my Blackberry that SA is going to have a party today. I wasn't sure if I was going to go to another party like this again bc the first one was a total bore but something is telling me to go.
I am expecting to not meet anyone good looking and/or with a good personality. That's how my luck has been so far...so hey. I am just going to go to have a good time. That's it. I'm going to dress to the nines, per usual, and have fun. For those who are going, see you there.