...unless you're seeking a serious relationship. But right now I'm not. I'm referring to Steve Harvey's book "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man". Now I haven't read his book, yet, but I remember when he was on Oprah talking about giving a man 90 days until you have sex with him. Ummm, no Mr. Harvey...not I.
If I meet a guy and we click and he's attractive, and everything is all good and dandy then you best believe we are going to wrestle in the sheets. I'm not saying to have a one-night stand either but whatever tickles your fancy. Americans have too many rules. Just follow your heart, gut, and mind and do what you want. As long as everyone is an adult, not drugged and use protection. Its all good. ;-)

In real dating situations, when I am looking for a life partner, I will not have sex with him for at least 6 months, if not, a year. This is why doing this SB thing is so contrary to my personal standards. There is a HUGE gap in my standards being a SB than being just me. Sometimes you have to try coming up with a "bad girl" persona to make sure the "good girl" is taken care of. If that makes any sense.
ReplyDeletewhhhaaa...? ...... i'm sorry, that is way too long.
ReplyDeletehowever... i do enjoy the chase, the anticipation... and i get bored of my guy quick if we sleep together too soon..
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I agree w/ u ladies. I guess you just have to feel out the situation and make the best decision for u. I guess I'm against the whole idea of setting a time frame. Everyone (and every relationship) is different.
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